Mirror, mirror in your hand…

One of the most frequently discussed topics in The Bedroom is that of sexual confidence as the ultimate aphrodisiac! Unfortunately we have to admit that more often than not the discussion is rather the lack of such confidence. We therefore encourage and stress to women the importance of becoming comfortable and familiar with their bodies if they want to enjoy sex by themselves or with a partner. This will aid tremendously to grow in sexual confidence.

But unfortunately, women are frequently discouraged from exploring their own bodies and thus aren't even sure what kinds of stimulation they like. This is one of the major reasons why so many women complain that they never have orgasms with or without a partner. You must learn what you like before you can show or teach your partner.

So how do you go about just that? The first thing I would recommend is that you simply relax and explore. Critical to this process is to use a mirror. Women can't see their genitals as easily, so a mirror can be a great help. A hand held mirror is all you need, maybe with some soothing background music and soft candlelight…
But don't make getting aroused or having an orgasm while exploring a goal. At first, all you want to do is learn more about your body. After that, you can move onto trying different types of stimulation on different areas to see what feels good, but even then, simply enjoy the sensations!

You might just start understanding your partner’s fascination…