The art of 69 - part 1

If ever there has been a subject matter that keeps intriguing and fascinating most women, whether it is because they want to know more or because they can’t seems to understand the fuss, it must be oral sex. And then there is the cultural issue to content with as well. So I've been meaning to blog about it for a while now and upon seeing that we have published 69 articles since our blog’s inception, I thought, surely this is a sign :)

This part will be about “Educating your partner (yourself?!) on cunnilingus; the act of using the mouth, lips, and tongue to stimulate the female genitals” and then the 2nd part will be about “How to give (perfect) fellatio”.

While every female body (and mind!) is different, and whether you have discovered the total pleasure of receiving oral sex from your partner or not, there are a few basics that are the same and that you could use to guide your partner ~
• Share a shower together before you begin so neither of you have to worry about possible unpleasant tastes or odours.
• Tell your partner what you like. You can say things like "harder" or "slower" or "more circles."
• A relaxed tongue will do the trick better, especially using the broad flat part - again, tell you partner this!
• Cunnilingus and a dry clitoris do not go well together. Make sure that your partner understands that, by asking/reminding them to fill their mouth with saliva first, or use some lube on their fingers.
• Know where your clitoris is! But don't have your partner diving straight for it. Tell your partner to first try gentle kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva.
• Ask your partner to think variety. If the same motion is repeated, you may become temporarily insensitive, so be sure to ask for varied stimulation.
• Let their hands roam. As you become more aroused, you can either insert a finger or two into your vagina, or guide your partner to do the same.
• Unlike men, many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm. Remind your partner to keep it going until you ask them to stop.

So relax, open up, enjoy and let someone else do the work!!