Sunday, August 30, 2009

The art of 69 - Part 2

Fellatio must rate as the “ultimate sexual gift” that any woman can give her man and that any man can wish to receive from his woman! But although most men’s number #1 favourite part of sex, so many women either cringe or simply don’t know how to give a “blow job”. There are some really good books that could guide you, but with a little practice and using the few easy tips below, you can improve your odds of providing a truly mind-blowing blow job, every time.

Don't Curb Your Enthusiasm. The key ingredient is plain and simple: enthusiasm. No one wants to feel like their partner is reluctant or unwilling, so if you're not into it, save it for another time. But if you seem like you're having fun, it will make the experience that much more pleasurable for him.
Get Comfortable. Get into a position that provides you easy access, but is also comfortable. Change positions as necessary. After all, he wants you to enjoy yourself too. For example, if you're kneeling on the floor in front of him, use a pillow under your knees.
Ban shyness. Unless it's just a little foreplay, take your time and pace yourself. A little variety is the best way to get him fully aroused: you can stroke, kiss, lick, run your tongue up and down the shaft, take the penis all the way into your mouth in one fell swoop etc. Keeping him guessing can be a real turn-on! Run your hands over his chest and legs. Grab his backside. Not only does it feel good, but it's a good way to show him that you're into it!
Get Him Talking. Whether it's harder, softer, faster or slower, no one knows exactly what he wants better than he does. Let him know its okay to tell you what he needs, whether verbally or non-verbally. But also be sure to watch for clues: heavy breathing and moans of pleasure mean you're on the right track.
Get Into a Rhythm. It's good to start out with soft, tantalizing moves, but, as arousal is heightened, it will take more pressure (again, you can use your hands together with your mouth) to keep things moving along, so get a steady rhythm going. Very important, don’t vary the rhythm and don’t change what you're doing.
The “ Secret Spot”. On the underside of the penis, directly below the head, is a small ridge of skin known as the fraenulum. On many men this area is exquisitely sensitive to stimulation. Learn it. Know it. Use it!
Most importantly - remember to have fun and relax. He's going to love it...a lot!!!. Especially if you promise to keep practicing on him!

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