How To Guide : Blow Job

The gorgeous little creation you see above is our Blow Job in a Bag Kit we are selling at the moment. It is absolutely fabulous Darl! It's a bag full of accessories you can use to give your man a sensational blow job.

Not sure how? Here's our detailed "How To Guide":


How To Guide : Blow Job

The list of tips and techniques for Blow Jobs is really never ending. There are many ways to skin a cat as the saying goes, so I would encourage you to explore and experiment together...

But here's a short list of things you can concentrate on or perhaps expand your repertoire with:

1. Don't give a BJ unless you are in a generous frame of mind and prepared to worship at the temple of penis!

2. Set the scene, whatever it takes to get you and your man ready for this incredible experience. Take a bath together, or shower if you're too excited to linger in the bath, light candles, set your props on the bedside table (more about this later), set the bed up to facilitate the experience, remove duvets and sheets if you want your man to really have a show, or if you're a bit shy, keep a sheet to cover yourself with and let yourself go under it. Make sure there are plenty of pillows to allow you man to prop himself up if he wants a good view (remember they are visual creatures). Make sure you're comfortable as well, pillows, etc. in the right position will ensure you are ready for the BJ marathon you want to spoil your man with.

3. Enthusiasm, enthusiasm, enthusiasm! If you're enthusiastic, your man will be enthusiastic about the experience.

4. Be gentle, loving and prepared to glorify his manhood. Start slowly, with your hands, tease him a little, use your warm breath, a feather, stroke him and get him going. You are building up to the event. Use both hands, make sure they are warm and try combinations of techniques, you can make rings with your hands and run them up and down, alternating, or you can use a twisting motion with flat hands or ringed fingers - be delicate. You can use a flat palm on the tip of his penis, etc. Change speeds as well as pressure, start gently and get firmer as you go on. You can introduce tantric routines, slow - slow - slow - quick - slow - slow - slow - quick. Experiment and encourage your man to be vocal about what he likes and doesn't like. Listen to the signals he is sending with his body as well as his voice.

5. When you have the responses you are wanting from your man, you can move on to some mouth play. Delay actually putting his penis in your mouth for as long as possible, consider this his foreplay. Start by licking him softly or flicking your tongue over him. Keep moving your hands. You're involving your mouth now, it doesn't mean everything else stops. When you've teased him enough and he's squirming or begging for more, lower your mouth over the head of his penis and breathe with a hot breath over him, before enclosing your mouth around the tip of his penis and sucking gently. Depending on how he responds you may want to go back to hand play and come back to this motion a few times. Or you may what to move into more devoted mouth play. At this point you could introduce some warmed lubricant (flavoured if you prefer) or massage oil (make sure whatever you are using is safe for intimate areas).

6. Don't just bob your head up and down and think that is a Blow Job - you will have a very dissatisfied man on your hands, continue using your hands as well as your mouth. Consider using one hand to cup his testicles and use your bent index finger knuckle to stimulate his perineum (this is the area between his scrotum and his anus - you may feel a lump under his skin like a pea). Concentrate on this area and you will drive him wild! While that hand is occupied, use your other hand on his penis with your mouth. Ring your fingers around him and follow your mouth up and down him, he won't feel where your mouth ends and your hand begins. Another area to pay attention to is his Corona (this is the area where the head of his penis meets the shaft and is incredibly sensitive. Again, change up the hand and mouth techniques, twisting, squeezing, etc. Watch out for the teeth - you can get a little carried away, remind yourself your man is delicate when you start getting into the swing of things.

7. When you are ready to bring your man to climax, increase pressure and tempo, and he's all yours. This brings us to the age old question, "Spit or Swallow or Leave Hanging". Obviously this is personal choice, however, I have to encourage you to go the route of swallow for a number of reasons. Put yourself in your man's shoes, if you were receiving cunnilingus and suddenly your partner stopped and you had to finish the job, how awesome would that be? Not very! A little semen will not kill you! You may even grow to love it. It's really a matter of mind over matter. Try it and you may surprise yourself and your partner. If you are very concerned about it, perhaps add a glass of something, or a shot of something you enjoy to your repertoire at the bedside table, and use it to chase back.

8. If you have done a particularly good job, your man may experience tingling in his fingers or toes and may spasm during climax. All of this is totally normal, pat yourself on the back for a job well done!

9. You are now a goddess to your man, you have him eating out of your hand, now is the time to ask for that diamond, car, kitchen, you name it, you'll probably get it!

Tips for the advanced BJ Technician:

1. Menthol Magic: Brush your teeth with too much toothpaste just before, or suck on a peppermint or some spearmint gum before a BJ to give your man a menthol tingle he will never forget.

2. Props Usage : If you're an exhibitionist at heart, make a show of flicking your hair over your man in the foreplay stages, glance up at him longingly while giving him his Blow Job, if you're shy, blindfold him (it might actually make him even more sensitive to his other senses). Experiment with Ice blocks and warm water. Use feathers, a silk scarf, whatever feels incredible on this skin can be draped over him, lightly swirled around him, etc. Think about different textures. Wearing a chunky ring can even add another dimension. Just remember he's delicate so nothing that can catch!

3. Perineum : This is probably the single most important area, besides the penis which you need to concentrate on. Adding stimulation of the perineum in to your routine will take your Blow Job to a completely different level for him.

4. Involve other body parts : don't just use your mouth and hands, rubbing your mans penis on your cheek can give him a thrill and be unexpected. If you are well endowed in the breast department, massage his penis between your breasts. Go wherever your bodies take you, there are no rules.

5. Exhibitionism : Your man wants the thrill of seeing you, so looking up at him while you're doing this is a thrill for him. If you're shy, you can still be an exhibitionist, start under a sheet and when he's in the throws of passion and you're a little braver, throw the sheet off, it will be an extra thrill for him.

6. Anal Play : If you want to experiment, you can also try using your baby finger or a small vibe or plug around your mans anus, and even inserting. This is personal choice entirely and you may want to establish before the fact whether your man is open to this or not.