The greatest not-for-sale sex tools

Here is the irony...what is most needed and desired behind closed doors, we can’t sell at The Bedroom....

I’m talking about the 2 greatest tools (not toys!) anyone can have in their sexual arsenal. And if in your possession, makes you a totally irresistible and desired sexual partner. ENTHUSIASM and CONFIDENCE literally make you magnetic to the opposite sex.

It is all about a mindset (note, not bodyset!) of willingness, participation, communication, pleasure, and showing your interest. It is to immerse yourself in the interaction and to willingly throw self-consciousness to the wind and totally engage in the process of “being a sexual being”. It is about relaxing and experiencing things fully because you are not self-conscious.

Sexual/erotic energy sings and dances throughout our entire being; arms, legs, hips, chest, breasts, and even eyes. Sexual self confidence means we feel desirous and desirable in and of ourselves. It dictates who we are attracted to, what we will try and who or what we will avoid. Our level of sexual self confidence also influences everything we think, feel, say or do and affects everything and everyone who comes in contact with us. It influences the way we stand, how we walk, how we talk, how we respond to stress and how we go about everyday things. It even influences how we pursue success and what kind of success we chose to pursue.

So the core truth about sexual confidence is that it is not all about sex. It is very much about power, the power that comes from liking and accepting yourself. But before you can give off a confident aura, you need to be comfortable with your body.

The key to unlocking your sexual confidence is to check your self-perception. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder—and you have to see yourself as beautiful before you can expect anyone else to. Yes, you need to feel good about your body, but body image is far less important than just feeling good about yourself and your life overall. Your internal dialogue should be loaded with sexually confident messages, such as: I am happy, fabulous, beautiful and I’ve got it!

And this is fact: the higher your sexual self confidence, the stronger your sexual presence. When your sexual presence/aura is strong, you have no need to constantly aspire to be "sexy" , act "sexy" or dress "sexy" because YOU JUST ARE!

Sorry that we can’t sell enthusiasm or confidence, but what we do sell could help you cultivate what you need in the process of becoming it!